I was
really fascinated by the main character Walt Kowalski’s way of being, and also
his relationships with the other peoples in the movie. I have chosen to focus
on this part of the film in this blog post.
The first
important relationship we were introduced to is the relationship between Walt
and the rest of his family. Walt’s two sons seemed to be irritated over their
father, and they did not know exactly what to do with him, or how to reach to
him. Later in the movie, Walt also admits to the priest during a confession
that he does not know his own sons, and that he regrets it. The wives and kids
of Walt’s sons only seemed to be after his money and belongings, but they are
not interested in talking to him. They do not seem to know much about Walt, but
he does not seem to know much about them either. It is easy to see, that there is not a good
relationship between Walt and his family. This is unlike any families I know,
but I am sure that it is not uncommon that some have bad relationships with
their family.
Another
relationship that is important throughout the movie is the relationship Walt
has with the priest. The priest promised Walt’s wife, before she died, that he
would look after Walt, and make him come to a confession. At first Walt does
not care for the priest, and demands that he calls him Mr Kowalski, and not
Walt. During the movie, they become closer, because they learn to know and
respect each other. They have a special relationship, due to the fact that it
builds on a promise the priest made to Walt’s wife. They become closer, but
they never become very close.
The only
person in the movie it seemed like Walt was friend with already was his barber.
They also had a special and interesting relationship. They called each other
such things as “crazy Italian prick” and “cheap bastard”, and it is easy to see
they both have a lot of prejudices. Although it is hard for an out stander,
like Thao, to understand the way their friendship works, and it can seem like
they dislike each other. It might be a bit inappropriate to talk to each other
that way with other people around, but if it is only those to around it is more
appropriate. Other people might misunderstand it, but when all the individuals
are okay with the language, and think that it is funny to talk to each other in
such manor then it is appropriate.
Probably
the most important relationship in the movie is the relationship Walt has with
the neighbor teens. He first befriends the girl sue, and later he becomes
really close to the boy Thao. Thao does not have father in his house, and Walt becomes
a father figure, and he helps him get a job and improve his life. Walt wants
Thao to become a man, and he helps him get the courage to ask out a girl. When
they are going on the date, Thao does not have a car to get the girl, so Walt
lets him borrow his beloved Gran Torino. This is the part in the movie where we
see how deep the relationship between Walt and Thao is. The car was Walt’s most
priced belonging, and still he lets Thao borrow it. This reminds me about when
I was younger, and my grandfather let my brother and I play with, and look at
his stamp collection. He had a big collection and he had collected for a very
long time. Looking back at it now, I realize that to let other play with
something that means a lot to you is a huge sign of trust.
There are
examples in real life where people have sacrificed themselves for others like
Walt did for Thao and Sue in the movie. In history class, we read about a woman
who lived around year 900. Her name was Melkorka, and she was the daughter of the
king of Ireland, but was kidnaped and bought by Iceland Viking chief at a slave
marked. She married a man she did not
like, just so he could pay for her son to go back to Ireland and prove he is a royal.
Her son goes back to Ireland and finds his grandfather and he receives high
status and becomes a mighty chief. His mother on the other hand, stayed on
Iceland for the rest of her life, with a man she did not like. This story comes
from “The saga of Laksdøla”, or the original name “Laksdøl saga”. Melkorka sacrificed
her life, just so her son did not have to be known as the son of a slave. She
did this out of love for her son, just as Walt did for Thao and Sue in the
movie.
Here are
the 5 questions I chose to answer in my blog post.
·
How
would you describe Walt’s relationship with his family? Do you know of anyone
that has a similar family relationship?
·
How
would you describe the relationship between Walt and the priest? How does this
relationship change during the movie?
·
Walt
and his friend the barber have an interesting relationship. Do you think the
way they talk to each other is appropriate or inappropriate? Why or why not? Do you
think it is okay to speak the way they do if both individuals are okay with the
language? Why or why not?
·
Towards
the end of the movie, Walt offers for Thao to use the car for his date. Discuss
the significance of this. Are their similar reallife situations in people’s
lives? Have you ever been offered to use something that had great significance
to somebody?
·
Can
you think of real life examples of people who have sacrificed themselves for
others? What drives these people to make this sort of sacrifice?
source: http://www.outsidethebeltway.com/gran_torino_a_conservative_movie/
source: http://www.outsidethebeltway.com/gran_torino_a_conservative_movie/